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4 Tips To Help Your ADHD Child Build Self-Confidence

Many parents of children with ADHD express concerns about their child's self-esteem. However, building self-confidence in these children is achievable through targeted strategies. Contrary to popular belief, shielding children from challenges can hinder their self-esteem development. By...

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ADHD Kids & Feeling Time (The ADHD Guys Podcast Ep.14)

Many children with ADHD have trouble feeling the passage of time, especially for tasks they don't find interesting. It's different from simply telling time. This "time blindness" is linked to weak nonverbal working memory, which impacts foresight and hindsight. They get stuck in the present...

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Top 5 Tips for Parents of Middle Schoolers

Many children with ADHD struggle with a unique challenge: time blindness. Unlike difficulty telling time, this involves an inability to sense the passage of time, especially for unappealing tasks.

 

Understanding "Time Blindness"

Individuals with ADHD often experience "time blindness,"...

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Your ADHD Child Does Not Lack Empathy

Having ADHD doesn't mean your child lacks empathy. They might have difficulty with perspective-taking, which means understanding how others feel and how their actions might be perceived. This is a common challenge in children with ADHD, as perspective-taking is a key social skill that can develop...

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Why ADHD Kids Gravitate Towards Younger Kids or Adults (From The ADHD Guys Podcast Ep. 10)

Does your child with ADHD struggle to connect with same-age peers, but thrive with younger kids or adults? This could be due to difficulties with social perspective taking.

They may struggle to understand the need for reciprocal conversation and fail to show interest in others. Without this...

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The story of my son's friend "Larry".
 
I met Larry because he attended the day camp I was running at the school where I worked, and he attended. Coincidentally, he lived in our neighborhood, and he and my son became friends.
 
Larry would make much "noise" (my term for arguing or complaining) when faced with a...
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ADHD Kids and Video Game Addiction

For many parents of children with ADHD, the allure of video games can be a source of significant concern. Images of their child glued to a screen, oblivious to the world around them, can trigger anxieties about addiction and wasted potential. This article aims to alleviate these anxieties by...

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ADHD Kids Agressive Behavior Towards Family Members

ADHD Kids Aggressive Behavior Towards Family

Child-to-parent violence within the home can be a deeply concerning and stressful experience. This article aims to reassure parents that they are not alone and equip them with practical strategies to address this behavior in children with ADHD. The...

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Are You Treating Your ADHD Child As Competent and "Anti-Fragile"?

Introduction
I've had the privilege of working with kids with ADHD and their families for over 20 years now as a clinician in private practice, former school social worker, and through parenting my son diagnosed with ADHD.   There are two crucial factors that I've noticed in families...

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Letter for parents to share with summer camp staff

I created this letter for my 2023 ADDitude webinar on helping kids with ADHD succeed at summer camp.  You can download and print this letter to share with your child's summer camp staff.  

 

 

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Helping Children with ADHD: Moving from Prompt Dependence to Independence aka "You stop acting as your child's executive functioning."

Children with ADHD often require additional support in managing daily tasks and activities. As caregivers, it's natural to want to help them succeed, but empowering them to develop their executive function skills is essential.

Understanding Prompt Dependence
When children with ADHD become prompt...

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Slides from my upcoming ADDitude webinar on May 28th: The Social Reboot: Helping Tween and Teen Boys with ADHD Make Friends
 
If you cannot watch live, you will receive an email with the recording if you pre-register.
 
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Understanding ADHD Medications for Children: What Parents Need to Know

Understanding ADHD Medications for Children: What Parents Need to Know



Parenting a child with ADHD can present unique challenges, especially when it comes to deciding whether or not to pursue medication as part of their treatment plan. In a recent interaction with a concerned parent, the topic...

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Update on Charlie a year later
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A year ago, when I first spoke with Charlie's mother, she told me how Charlie would walk around school with headphones to cover his ears. Charlie does not have autism; he does not have sensitivities to sound and wasn't wearing them to help him focus....
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